I have always been an anxious person. As a child the feeling of my stomach doing flip flops, nausea and my throat closing up was all too familiar. Unfortunately, it got even worse as I got older. I am incredibly risk averse because I always fear the worst will happen. There are even days where I dread leaving the house, not because I don’t want to go out, but because I’m too anxious and worry something might happen to my fur-kids while I’m away.
I thought I was alone feeling like this, but it turns out anxiety is pretty common, especially in our fast paced world. So I thought I would share how I manage my anxiety and maybe you can find something that will also work for you.
Have a regular yoga asana practice
I have always heard people tell me that yoga worked wonders for their stress levels, better sleep and their anxiety, but to be honest I didn’t really buy into the whole hype. That’s to say, until I finally started practicing regularly. It’s didn’t make my anxiety disappear, but I began to notice the symptoms in my own body much sooner, which meant I could take action to make sure it didn’t get bad. I also found the movement quite calming which meant my anxiety was much less severe.
Another one I used to roll my eyes at, but it seriously works for me. Finding that stillness, even just for 5 minutes each morning means I start my day calmer and much more relaxed. If I know I have a busy time coming up, or will need to do something out of my comfort zone I make sure to increase my meditation to sitting for longer, or practicing twice a day.
More specifically, Nadi Shodhana or alternate nostril breathing. During this breathing practice, you sit in a comfortable position and then breathe in through one nostril, close it off, open the other nostril with a finger and breathe out. You then breathe in through that nostril, close it off with your finger, open the other nostril and breathe out. Repeat until you’re done. I know it sounds a little strange but counting and focusing on the breath really helps to calm my body and allow me to focus on one thing, instead of all the worst case scenarios playing out in my head.
If you’re unsure how to practice Nadi Shodhana, I made a little instructional video a while back which you can watch here.
Get out in nature
There is just something calming about standing bare feet on the grass, or sitting underneath a beautiful tree or listening to the sound of the waves crashing on the sand. Heading outside, even just for 5 minutes immediately makes me feel more relaxed.
Asking for help
I think so many of us feel ashamed asking for help, but reaching out when you need a hand is important. Speak to your GP, your partner or a trusted friend. There is also no shame in taking medication or seeing a professional to help you get hold of your anxiety. Have an honest conversation with your GP. Sometimes all you need is something mild to help you through especially tough days, or they can provide you with a referral to see someone who you can work with. My partner knows when I have bad days and always makes sure to offer support. I am especially anxious when flying so he makes sure I have the seat I prefer and holds my hand when we take off and land or is ready for hugs when turbulence gets bad and I need a shoulder to cry on. My GP also knows that flying is tough for me, so I make sure I pop by to have a chat and stock up on medication I might need to help me with my anxiety.
Hopefully you’ll find one or a few of these tips useful if you suffer from anxiety. The important thing to remember is that you’re not alone and that it’s more than ok to reach out if you need help.