I have a confession to make. I absolutely LOVE this time of year. I grew up in a town that each year decorated our main street with Christmas lights and then closed the road for a few nights for a big Christmas market.
It’s also a time when schools break for summer holidays (at least for those of us in the Southern Hemisphere) so December was a time for a lot of excitement. Decorating our tree started as soon as my mom finally relented and I can still recall the smell of Christmas when I opened up the box with all the decorations.
I was also very lucky in that I had two Christmases. One of Christmas Eve and another on Christmas day (the benefits of German and Scandinavian ancestry). Naturally as I got older, fell in love, moved out of home and got married things changed a little. But it wasn’t until the Hubby and I moved across the ocean to another country when I realised what Christmas on our own would be like. We no longer had our usual traditions with our family, and it was time to adjust to Christmases with just the two of us. We have come to love this time of year where we get to spend time together as a couple, incorporating some traditions from our childhood while also creating new ones.
Going to the beach
While I grew up close to the beach, we never went there on Christmas day. We’d be busy catching up with other family members while the beach was usually packed with holiday makers from the north. However, since moving to Perth the Hubby and I now get up early and head for the beach first thing. It’s usually quite hot, so we enjoy a nice refreshing swim first thing and then head home to escape the heat (and usually the crowds that begin to arrive later in the morning).
I’m so happy the Hubby was keen for us to celebrate on Christmas Eve like I used to as a child. Instead of doing a big lunch and pressies on the 25th, I instead make us a delicious meal on Christmas eve. We have the Christmas lights going, some music in the background and after dinner, we get to open our pressies from the tomte (Christmas elves). Not only is it quite a nice, romantic evening, but it just feels more Christmassy doing it at night.
I never had Christmas stockings growing up. I do remember leaving my pillowcase out though. But Hubby’s family has Christmas stockings which sounded fun. His aunt made him his own personalised stocking when he was still quite young, and then she surprised me recently with a beautiful one of my own. We now make sure to hang them up even if we don’t fill them with gifts. They’re a nice reminder for Hubby of his childhood and I think they look gorgeous, although I usually make sure to at least fill them with delicious treats.
German Christmas carols
My grandfather gave me a tape (yep, that’s how old I am) of German Christmas carols for my first birthday. Believe it or not, I still have my tape, although it doesn’t always want to work 100%. Luckily I could track down the singer and the songs on Spotify! Christmas is saved! It’s not Christmas unless I’ve spend a few days singing along to my carols. It’s a tradition that’s been going for as long as I’ve been on this planet and while I admit the carols don’t appeal to everyone, they remind me of when I was little and how excited I was in the days leading up to Christmas.
This is another more recent tradition for me. My grandparents had an advent candle. You had 4 candles in a wreath and would start to burn the first one of the fourth Sunday before Christmas. Each week closer you’d burn the next one. I now make my own advent calendars, usually with an educational but fun Christmas related fact inside it and a small chocolate or two. But those I have to keep in the fridge else they would melt!
This is also a more recent tradition. Each weekend in December before Christmas we watch a Christmas movie. My favourites include Die Hard, Love Actually and Elf.
So while we’re usually away from family this time of year, it doesn’t feel like a lonely time for us. We usually Skype or call family members on Christmas day, but the rest of the time Christmas is a special time for us as a couple to connect, laugh and be together.
What are some of your Christmas traditions?